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Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts

Monday, September 1, 2014

Our family of deer and an update

We have a family of deer that feed regularly in our front yard.  I leave corn there for them.  For a long time it was just the doe, but one day she showed up with three fawn.  The littlest one sticks close to Mama. The color is a bit off in this photo.

 The two older ones usually are together although occasionally one will wander off by itself.
The doe will wait patiently for me to walk out and spread the corn.  I talk to her the entire time in what I hope is a soft, soothing voice.  The fawns will hide while I'm walking around, but she stands a distance away from me and watches and perks her ears at my voice. My son's children have enjoyed spreading corn out for the deer and filling the bird feeder then hanging them up in the morning.  At the end of the day we spread more corn and take the feeders inside the garage so the raccoons don't get them.

We have had the grandchildren here a good bit this summer and it's been a good 'taste' of what will be possible after I retire.  Two of them have spent the night by themselves.  Addison will get her turn in two weeks.  It's especially nice having one on one time with each of them.

This week has been busy.  I went into school on Tuesday and worked on filing all the stacks of papers from last year or at least organizing them enough that my aides can take over when we return tomorrow. (We have been off for a week for the county fair.) I got all my copies made for the first  three days, so I won't be vying for copier time with the other teachers.

Mike and I went shopping for a vanity top for our downstairs bathroom.  I will feature that another time.

Saturday I had four teacher friends over to see the house, eat dessert, and visit.  No pictures were taken though.  We had a wonderful time catching up on each other's lives as two of them are retired and another one is the librarian aide who resigned.  The fourth one is the counselor at my high school.  Her office is a haven  if things get too crazy.  All are dear friends and I so enjoyed having them over.

 Sunday I took dessert to Doug's house where we met  his 'girlfriend' and her daughter.  We were there for two hours and had a nice time visiting.  Doug is thrilled with the relationship and I can see why.  She appears beautiful inside and out.  Her daughter is nine so she's Dillon's age.  He went to his room to play as he was a bit overwhelmed with five females present!

 Doug and Melissa
Doug, Dillon, Addison, Peyton, Melissa, and Maddy (Melissa's daughter)
at Cedar Point several weekends ago.

Doug took this one on Lake Erie.
He had his boat up there for a weekend.

That brings us to today. I have more grading to do and a curriculum  map to complete.  It is drizzling out and is overcast---excellent for staying inside and getting things done.

Happy Labor Day!  I hope your week is wonderful!


Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Corner View: Gift

I have a blogger friend
who has been a special blessing to me.
Last year after I really liked some Ted Koontz
poems she put on her web site,
Nance started sending me postcards
with poems of his on them.
They were wonderful gifts of poetry
 and friendship
winging their way 
from Oregon
to Ohio.




For more views on gifts,
head over to Francesca's.

Friday, June 13, 2014

Five-Minute Friday: Messenger






Gut feelings---that's my messenger.  I know what needs to be done and for whom.  Often the message is a surprise and I'm hesitant to obey.  What if they think I'm nuts? What if they really don't like or want or need this?  What if I imagined this? What if; what if; what if?  I can 'what if' myself until the 'moment' has passed.  Then, regret hits and the guilt that I have let God down, because I firmly believe He's the one poking me in the gut.  I've done this countless times with cards.  Cards still are special to a lot of people. Short notes written on the card or on note paper tucked inside it up the 'meanfulness anty' (my made-up term) considerably  They tuck it away with the other special cards and notes to peruse years down the road.  I have ones dating from before junior high and I'm 60.
I'm better at listening when I'm not in school.  I tire easily when teaching and reserve myself for my students.  So friends are sometimes neglected.  I choose to ignore the poke in the gut.  I'm listening now and several cards with small gifts tucked in them as well as notes are making their way to some friends.  Some have already arrived and been gratefully acknowledged.  I don't feel silly now. . . well. . . as silly.

Read more on "Messenger" at Five-Minute-Friday at Lisa-Jo Baker's blog.

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